1. When I think about seeing him/her tomorrow, I . . .
a- Still get butterflies
b- Hope that something fun will happen
c- I know the routine exactly.
d- Want to call and cancel
2. Dating her/him has been . . .
a- Mostly fun and good times
b- It's not thrills, but we know how to pass the time
c- Well we don't fight
d- Such a rollercoaster
3. After the last fight since we . . .
a- Made sweet love
b- Pretended nothing happened and kept going
c- Didn't talk for a while before one of us apologized
d- Made up, but we fought the next day again
4. When I think about my whole life, dating him/her comes up as . . .
a- The better part of my life
b- One of the good times in my life
c- It's not great but not bad either, I don't put that much thought in to it
d- A really hard time in my life that%u2019s on going, but the love is there
5. When I think about the future, I . . .
a- See it positively
b- Hope positive things will come out
c- Don't think about a future yet
d- Am nervous and scared
6. My friends and family say________about him/her . . .
a- You guys are perfect for each other
b- You guys make a cute couple
c- This is just a fling
d- Most of them wont speak to me because of my partner
7. The person I am dating and I, have common interests such as . . .
a %u2013values and theories about life
b -Books and music and movies
c-We usually do our own thing
d-We fight about everything
Check Your Score:
Mostly A:
I don't even know why you took this test. But if you did that means you are questioning you partner. Look at the bigger picture, like love. Do you love the person or are you just together because you get along so well. If you are then you might want something more and you are just wasting your time. If you haven't fallen in love by now you probably won't.
Mostly B:
Your experience might be hot and heavy but with a little more effort on both your parts it could be a great relationship. You two have a base to work with. Relationship is not an easy thing. It requires hard work and never getting lazy.
Mostly C:
It depends on what you are looking for in a dating relationship right now. You guys are obviously not working hard enough to overly please each other but you aren't making each other miserable. It doesn't seem like you really care whether you guys end up together. You don't have to break up if you are both comfortable. If you are looking for something more in a relationship then you should consider it.
Mostly D:
Boy - this is not easy. Most singles would be quick to judge and stop dating. But there is obviously a lot of passion and love for one another. Think carefully about what you love about each other, then think about what is going on here and why you too are always fighting? How many chances have you already given and how much change has actually taken place for the better? If there is progressive change work a little more on continued change? If not, it's time to call it a night on this relationship.